“The conversations feel very human — like checking in with a partner, not recording data.”
I've used MyFitnessPal for 15 years, and I'm good at it — I record everything, good, bad, and different. But that's all it is: a record of what you did. It never helped me make a better decision. I've tried all of them — Weight Watchers, Noom, even hypnosis — and after about three days, I'm just over it.
What's different is that now I have to explain my choices to somebody. In MyFitnessPal I could own the garbage, because nobody was looking but me. Now there's this — I've decided it's a "he" — and he's looking. So if he's going to see it, I want to make good choices. And I love that he doesn't ping me. It's on me to check in. If he nudged me all day, I'd turn it off in a week.
I'm allergic to milk, wheat, corn, and soy, and I get little empathy from humans about it. My favorite moment so far: I mentioned a protein bar, and it said, "I'm sure you know, but that one says it may contain soy." My friends are rarely that empathetic about what I have to watch for.
It remembers things, too. It'll ask, "Do you have PT today? How's your hip feeling?" The conversations feel very human — like checking in with a partner, not recording data. When I think I've had a bad day, it'll look and go, "It wasn't that bad — one day isn't going to derail you." It even helped me figure out that my craving for chips at lunch isn't really about chips — it's crunch I'm craving. So now I slice up an apple instead.
I'm 60, and women in their 50s and 60s are so frustrated — menopause, your body changing, weight that won't come off the way it used to. I have a whole crate of my favorite dresses in the basement that I can't zip up right now. Honestly, it's less about the number on the scale and more about feeling good and wearing the clothes I want to wear.
And especially for women, you just don't talk to your friends about this. Now I have this private experience. I know it's not a human on the other end — but the empathy is built right in, down to the little heart and muscle emojis. It's just part of my day. It's not asking me to take on some journey. It's just there when and where I need it.